Networking 101 Mar 05, 2008

Topic: Open Forum

(2008/03/05 - 12:21): TamaraWilson joined the room
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 12:21): Welcome
TamaraWilson (2008/03/05 - 12:21): Good Morning how are you doing?
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 12:21): Terrific.
TamaraWilson (2008/03/05 - 12:22): Thats great to hear :)
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 12:22): Just finished up a set of button/banners for a VA client's affiliate program
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 12:23): working on a couple of other projects too. One is a logo for a new TV show in Vegas
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 12:23): What have you been up to?

TamaraWilson (2008/03/05 - 12:23): That is so cool. your just a busy little bee :)
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 12:23): Love it!
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 12:24): I love to be busy. Been that way all my life! At least that is what mom says. ;)

TamaraWilson (2008/03/05 - 12:25): I have been working on a few podcasts and moving a site from frontpage to wordpress.
TamaraWilson (2008/03/05 - 12:25): So trying to keep busy.

gmarks (2008/03/05 - 12:26): Migrating sites is always fun. LOL
TamaraWilson (2008/03/05 - 12:26): No kidding. But its ok. something to do. Although I have been in chats all morning tying to avoid working yes I know bad me
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 12:26): ROTFLMBBBO!
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 12:27): I tried to go to WBO's monthly chat but nobody was there.
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 12:27): Either that or I went to the wrong room

TamaraWilson (2008/03/05 - 12:28): I think today I am just kinda bumming because my oldest turns 14 today, And his high school orentation is tonight So he is growing up is not a good thing
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 12:28): Me? Avoid working? Nah! LOL
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 12:28): I tried. :D

TamaraWilson (2008/03/05 - 12:28): Havent been there
TamaraWilson (2008/03/05 - 12:28): brb need coffee

gmarks (2008/03/05 - 12:29): Happy Birthday to him.
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 12:29): ok, ttys

TamaraWilson (2008/03/05 - 12:33): Imback and twittered about the chat ;)
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 12:33): thanks
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 12:33): Don't know if it will be well attended today since the fopah last week with the Guest Speaker pulling a no-show
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 12:34): I don't think I have ever been so embarrased.

TamaraWilson (2008/03/05 - 12:34): that was just rude did you ever hear why?
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 12:34): Besides that, I took over and did the whole presentation myself while in ghost mode.
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 12:34): Not a word.
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 12:34): No clue.

TamaraWilson (2008/03/05 - 12:35): What you did post was helpful though
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 12:35): Could be a time zone misinformation though, since she resides in Australia. But that should have been noted and adjusted for by her since I did tell her EST.
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 12:35): :(
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 12:36): Ya, after I found out I presented to it the first time through as a ghost.
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 12:36): lol
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 12:36): The room has been fixed so that I don't think I am here when I am not
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 12:36): what a trip.

TamaraWilson (2008/03/05 - 12:36): That could be.
TamaraWilson (2008/03/05 - 12:36): Thats good its fixed

gmarks (2008/03/05 - 12:37): Poor Carol, she tried to keep things lively, all the time I was thinking she was over-talking my presentation. LOL
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 12:37): I am really thankful that she was here to help.

TamaraWilson (2008/03/05 - 12:37): Yes I was asking questions tokeep things going
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 12:38): thanks.
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 12:38): Well, do you have any questions about business building or online networking?

TamaraWilson (2008/03/05 - 12:38): not that I can think of. lol
TamaraWilson (2008/03/05 - 12:39): Ill let you get back to work :)

gmarks (2008/03/05 - 12:39): I am going to hang out a while to see if anyone shows up late.
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 12:39): let's do a bust-a-link at least
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 12:39): you first

TamaraWilson (2008/03/05 - 12:39): tamara-wilson.com
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 12:39): please post your introduction too
TamaraWilson (2008/03/05 - 12:39): babytalkradio.com
TamaraWilson (2008/03/05 - 12:39): specialneedskidstalkradio.com
TamaraWilson (2008/03/05 - 12:40): Oh yea ;)
TamaraWilson (2008/03/05 - 12:40): I am Tamara Wilson WAHM to four children. Married to Ned for 6 years. We recently moved to Eastern washington for his work.

gmarks (2008/03/05 - 12:41): At least you are on the west coast. :D
TamaraWilson (2008/03/05 - 12:41): Yea thats true.
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 12:41): I fell in love with the west coast and the mountains on my first and only visit years ago.
TamaraWilson (2008/03/05 - 12:41): I grew up mainly in So cal so this is a huge change for me.
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 12:42): Much better up north.
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 12:42): Mild weather and GREEN

TamaraWilson (2008/03/05 - 12:42): Yes I love the green part
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 12:42): :D
TamaraWilson (2008/03/05 - 12:42): hate the snow part lol
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 12:42): Do you ever get up to Vancouver?
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 12:42): to the park?

TamaraWilson (2008/03/05 - 12:43): I havent
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 12:43): I have always wanted to go there.
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 12:43): Oh pooh! You'll have to remedy that .

TamaraWilson (2008/03/05 - 12:43): It sounds nice.
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 12:43): OK, my turn.
TamaraWilson (2008/03/05 - 12:43): I still want to go to Seattle. I stoped by the airport for an hour but thats it.
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 12:43): www.DocUmeant.net
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 12:44): www.DocUmeantdesigns.com
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 12:44): www.NibrocMarketingSolutions.com
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 12:44): www.WINningSisters.org
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 12:44): I had to think a minute, almost put the old Sisters URL. LOL

TamaraWilson (2008/03/05 - 12:46): I do that too sometimes lol
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 12:47): I am a WAHW residing in Florida with my husband of six years. I love to help others grow both as individuals and business owners. With marketing tools and over 30-years experience as a multi-million dollar surgical facility business owner I assist entrepreneurs of all experience levels to LOOK GOOD!
TamaraWilson (2008/03/05 - 12:48): Wow sounds great :)
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 12:48): Does it? Just off the cuff. LOL
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 12:49): Seattle was too busy. Traffic is horrible. But lunch on the prominade was nice.
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 12:50): Have you visited the WINning Sister site lately?
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 12:50): There are some really good chats in the archive and lots of links.

TamaraWilson (2008/03/05 - 12:51): I havent actually. I just opened it though
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 12:51): heehee
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 12:51): Looks like we are the only ones going to show up today.
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 12:52): How would you like a thankyou gift from the WINning Sisters for being a loyal participant?

TamaraWilson (2008/03/05 - 12:52): Yup maybe its just since its the begining of the month people are working hard :)
(2008/03/05 - 12:52): Coachrose joined the room
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(2008/03/05 - 12:52): Coachrose joined the room
Coachrose (2008/03/05 - 12:52): hi
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 12:52): Everyone who came today was going to get this offer, however, lol...
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 12:52): Welcome Coach Rose

Coachrose (2008/03/05 - 12:53): This is Lael.
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 12:53): LOL
TamaraWilson (2008/03/05 - 12:53): Welcome Coach Rose its great to see you here :)
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 12:53): Hi Lael.
Coachrose (2008/03/05 - 12:53): ty
TamaraWilson (2008/03/05 - 12:53): AHHh Hey Lael :)
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 12:53): Please share your links and a brief intro.
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 12:53): we both shared already and the info will be in the archive for you later today.

Coachrose (2008/03/05 - 12:54): My name is Lael Johnson. I am a creativity coach, writer and beader. I work with women to remove blocks to their creative expresssion.
Coachrose (2008/03/05 - 12:54): My web site is: www.writerseye.com
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 12:54): The WINning Sisters have a gift for all participants today to make up for last weeks Guest Speaker no-show.
Coachrose (2008/03/05 - 12:55): my profile says male--that's a goof I have to fix.
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 12:55): Beader? I did that a bit. It is great fun creating wearable art.
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 12:55): heehee
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 12:55): soooo, had a sex change eh?

TamaraWilson (2008/03/05 - 12:55): Suuuurerre The truth comes out ;)
TamaraWilson (2008/03/05 - 12:55): Ok Im kidding

Coachrose (2008/03/05 - 12:55): yes it is.
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 12:55): lololol
Coachrose (2008/03/05 - 12:56): no my name can be either or===I was just working too fast when I completed the form.
Coachrose (2008/03/05 - 12:56): :) Tammy
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 12:56): I bet Renee can fix it if you can't
TamaraWilson (2008/03/05 - 12:56): I do some beading but but havent been able to get much done lately
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 12:56): It is fun if you have some really nice pieces to bead with.
Coachrose (2008/03/05 - 12:56): well i will check it later not now.
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 12:57): But that means there is a big investment.
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TamaraWilson (2008/03/05 - 12:57): I have a crazy question, What does a coach do?
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 12:57): oops.
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 12:57): we lost her
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 12:57): You'll have to repost when she pops back in.
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 12:57): so she can see the question.

TamaraWilson (2008/03/05 - 12:57): Maybe she went to fix her sex and it took her away
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 12:57): lol
TamaraWilson (2008/03/05 - 12:58): yea I will.
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 12:58): I only know there are many types of coaches.
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 12:58): you not only need to find the right type but the right one for you too.

TamaraWilson (2008/03/05 - 12:58): I have a question for you. With a button, do you create an image or is it one that is proivided by the costumer
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 12:58): For example, Carol Deckert is a networking coach
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 12:59): and Felicia Slattery is a communications coach.
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 12:59): sure.
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 12:59): Can be either or both, Tamara.

TamaraWilson (2008/03/05 - 13:00): ok thanks
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 13:00): If the customer only has words and no image I can either find a photo/graphic or draw one from scratch.
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Coachrose (2008/03/05 - 13:00): back
TamaraWilson (2008/03/05 - 13:00): Im still thinking, I need one for Special Needs Kids Talk radio just havent decided what I want yet
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 13:00): Welcome back Lael
TamaraWilson (2008/03/05 - 13:00): Welcome back
Coachrose (2008/03/05 - 13:00): i changed it but it hasn't registered yet...
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 13:01): Usually the logo or at least colors and size will help.
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 13:01): I like to visit the website to try to get the feel of the person I am creating for.
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 13:01): Once you decide just let me know.
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 13:02): Lael, Tamara had a question for you.

TamaraWilson (2008/03/05 - 13:02): I may also get a new header too. I am so confused lol
Coachrose (2008/03/05 - 13:02): yes
TamaraWilson (2008/03/05 - 13:02): Hey Lael What is a coach? I guess how do they help you?
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 13:02): Well, I can help you when you are ready Tamara just give me a shout
Coachrose (2008/03/05 - 13:03): Coaches help nudge people to take action. they help them to identify, accept and create plans to make changes in their lives.
TamaraWilson (2008/03/05 - 13:03): sounds good. I am just trying to figure out what I do want before getting one if that makes sense. i am open to ideas, its for http://www.specialneedskidstalkradio.com
TamaraWilson (2008/03/05 - 13:03): ahhh okey that makes sense.

Coachrose (2008/03/05 - 13:04): sure, sometimes working with a coach can bring clarity though.
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 13:04): I'll check it out and get back with you.
TamaraWilson (2008/03/05 - 13:04): I just see it all the time and i often wonder how it all works, I have heard it in voice but the text helped clearify things
TamaraWilson (2008/03/05 - 13:04): if that makes sense
TamaraWilson (2008/03/05 - 13:04): :)

Coachrose (2008/03/05 - 13:05): voice and coaching?
Coachrose (2008/03/05 - 13:05): i'm confused.
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 13:05): There are many types of coaches. Sports such as Olympic atheletes and National Sport teams use them to become the best they can be.
Coachrose (2008/03/05 - 13:05): ok i see == it can be confusing.
TamaraWilson (2008/03/05 - 13:06): Do I asked in a voice chat what coaching is. And they explained it to me but reading it made more sense
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 13:06): So it only makes sense that business owners would want to take advantage of coaches too.
Coachrose (2008/03/05 - 13:06): I understand.
TamaraWilson (2008/03/05 - 13:06): that does make sense Ginger
Coachrose (2008/03/05 - 13:06): yes Ginger
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 13:06): Tamara, that tells me that you are a graphic person. You learn better from reading than hearing.
Coachrose (2008/03/05 - 13:07): Anyone can benefit from coaching.
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 13:07): that is something that your coach should know when you start with him/her
Coachrose (2008/03/05 - 13:07): It is different from therapy and for some people is easier to handle.
TamaraWilson (2008/03/05 - 13:07): yup.
TamaraWilson (2008/03/05 - 13:07): I guess it just seems strange to go to someone for it I dunno. Even though I understand it better.

Coachrose (2008/03/05 - 13:07): glad to be of help
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 13:08): Lael, would you please explain the difference between therapy and coaching?
Coachrose (2008/03/05 - 13:08): it can
TamaraWilson (2008/03/05 - 13:08): I guess I am just a what would you call it I dont like putting myself out there that much if that makes sense
Coachrose (2008/03/05 - 13:08): I wil do my best.
Coachrose (2008/03/05 - 13:09): Therapy works on deeper roots in a person's life. The therapist receives more specific training, medical, etc. aspects of those roots then a coach.
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 13:09): Tamara, that is usual, fear of what others will think is a base cause sometimes for many of us.
Coachrose (2008/03/05 - 13:09): A coach takes you where you are and helps you move to where you want to go. If there are roots that come up, a good coach will refer you to a therapist or vice versa.
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 13:10): or perhaps fear of the unknown.
TamaraWilson (2008/03/05 - 13:10): that makes sense
Coachrose (2008/03/05 - 13:10): I don't find it easy to put myself out there either and I've been in therapy and coaching for quite some time.
Coachrose (2008/03/05 - 13:10): It always carries some risk.
TamaraWilson (2008/03/05 - 13:10): I may have to try this coaching thing out
Coachrose (2008/03/05 - 13:11): you just may:)
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 13:11): You won't be sorry, Tamara
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 13:11): I have a thought.

Coachrose (2008/03/05 - 13:11): tamara you are in great company as the coaches in our skype rooms are some of the best around. (not talking about me:))
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 13:11): Lael, would you like to present on what Coaching is and what it isn't?
Coachrose (2008/03/05 - 13:11): but then I'm biased.
Coachrose (2008/03/05 - 13:11): sure
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 13:12): Perhaps you could do a tag-team with Carol Deckert.
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 13:12): that would be cool.
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 13:12): Do you think that would interest you Tamara?

TamaraWilson (2008/03/05 - 13:12): But is it good to have your couch with a friend? Or is it better to use a friend since they know you a little better?
Coachrose (2008/03/05 - 13:12): sure--would you like me to talk with her or do you want to talk with her first?
TamaraWilson (2008/03/05 - 13:12): yea
TamaraWilson (2008/03/05 - 13:13): brb they need juice

gmarks (2008/03/05 - 13:13): You know each other so just let her know I made the offer and work out a day.
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 13:13): ok

Coachrose (2008/03/05 - 13:13): tamara - that 's a decision for you to make...if you think that a friendship works then use it, otherwise choose someone else.
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 13:13): Let's plan it then.
Coachrose (2008/03/05 - 13:13): ok ginger I will send her a message today as she is on and off all day.
Coachrose (2008/03/05 - 13:13): did you want to do it here in this room?
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 13:14): sounds good, just remember the dates are everyother week is guest speaker.
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 13:14): We have the next two booked so anytime after that
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 13:14): yes, please.

Coachrose (2008/03/05 - 13:14): let me talk to her and then we will chat about some dates....and check with you.
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 13:15): super
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 13:15): how fun!

Coachrose (2008/03/05 - 13:15): ty
Coachrose (2008/03/05 - 13:15): :)
TamaraWilson (2008/03/05 - 13:16): This sounds great :)
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 13:16): OK, before we go I want to give you both the info about the loyalty gift for being here this week.
Coachrose (2008/03/05 - 13:16): I'm sure Carol will like the idea.
Coachrose (2008/03/05 - 13:16): ok
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 13:17): The WINning Sisters would like to thank you for your loyal attendance to our chats by offering you 1/2 price on quilt ads.
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 13:17): If you would like to take advantage of this offer go to the quilt page and order the run length you desire and I will double it.
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 13:18): For example if you sign up for one week get two, one month gets you two, etc.

Coachrose (2008/03/05 - 13:18): is this on the winning sisters site?
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 13:18): yes, the url is http://www.WINningSisters.org
TamaraWilson (2008/03/05 - 13:18): Wow thanks :)
Coachrose (2008/03/05 - 13:18): ok
Coachrose (2008/03/05 - 13:19): ty
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 13:19): This is a special pricing only for those in attendance today, and I know who you are. LOL
Coachrose (2008/03/05 - 13:19): y
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 13:20): no, thank YOU!
TamaraWilson (2008/03/05 - 13:20): Thanks to both of you :)
Coachrose (2008/03/05 - 13:20): :)
TamaraWilson (2008/03/05 - 13:20): I gotta go clean the girly she made a huge mess :) Ill Chat with you both more in Skype. Lael can you please PM me your url
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 13:21): Well ladies, we have just a few minutes left. Is there anything you would like to ask or share? Any special events coming up?
TamaraWilson (2008/03/05 - 13:21): on slype so its clicable
Coachrose (2008/03/05 - 13:21): y tamara
TamaraWilson (2008/03/05 - 13:21): skype shesh I cant spell
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 13:21): lol
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 13:21): huge mess eh? Better you than me. LOL

Coachrose (2008/03/05 - 13:21): oh well
TamaraWilson (2008/03/05 - 13:21): Lets see I dont really, that I can think of
Coachrose (2008/03/05 - 13:21): I'm finished
TamaraWilson (2008/03/05 - 13:22): Other then the first episode of baby talk radio by me should be out by friday
Coachrose (2008/03/05 - 13:22): good
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 13:22): That's pretty SPECIAL!
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 13:22): Congrats! Break a leg!

TamaraWilson (2008/03/05 - 13:22): As long as I can get the short peeps to coroprate lol
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 13:22): lolol
Coachrose (2008/03/05 - 13:22): applause
TamaraWilson (2008/03/05 - 13:22): And I think we had an awesome first special needs kids first episode
TamaraWilson (2008/03/05 - 13:22): thanks :0
TamaraWilson (2008/03/05 - 13:23): :)
TamaraWilson (2008/03/05 - 13:23): I think I caught the podcast/audio bug lol

gmarks (2008/03/05 - 13:23): You should interview Barbara about baby sign language
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 13:23): LOLOLOL

TamaraWilson (2008/03/05 - 13:23): barbara who?
Coachrose (2008/03/05 - 13:23): sounds interesting
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 13:24): I'll get her name and info for you on Skype
Coachrose (2008/03/05 - 13:24): have worked with special needs kids in the past--just a little bit.
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 13:24): since these links aren't clicable.
TamaraWilson (2008/03/05 - 13:24): ok sounds great.
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 13:24): There you go, a connection for even one more podcast Tamara
TamaraWilson (2008/03/05 - 13:24): :) sounds great
Coachrose (2008/03/05 - 13:24): hmm we will have to chat about that...
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 13:24): Put it out there and the universe will open the door to you.
Coachrose (2008/03/05 - 13:25): y
TamaraWilson (2008/03/05 - 13:25): Sounds good :)
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 13:25): Wow! What a productive chat!
Coachrose (2008/03/05 - 13:25): y
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 13:25): thank you both for coming today. I am getting the good willies.
TamaraWilson (2008/03/05 - 13:25): Yup I am working on opening myself up more and letting others know about projects it has been a huge help
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 13:25): ;-)
TamaraWilson (2008/03/05 - 13:25): your welcome
Coachrose (2008/03/05 - 13:25): thanks for the opportunity.
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Coachrose (2008/03/05 - 13:26): see you later ginger:)
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 13:26): you are both welcome. Be sure to come back next week for our Speaker.
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 13:26): Check the site for who and what.
gmarks (2008/03/05 - 13:26): see you then.

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